I simply wanted to comment on the Jon & Kate - +Eight breakup...I got led to this blog, through a BLOG.JoelX.com, and now I am completely at a loss Do you have to go through these two guys sites that are obviously trying to become "known" in some media or other??
Back to Jon and Kate, (perhaps Eric or Joel would kindly forward this),I thought at first, it was all a media ratings "hype game." Now, it looks like the real thing.
I dont care how much money or celebrity you have, how much TV face time you get, divorce is the most traumatic thing that can be done to any child. Its the ultimate in "child abuse." I speak as the child of a divorce, and most unfortunately as the "perpetrator" in a divorce. There is no way to undo that kind of lasting damage on a kid. Nothing will, I'm sure convince Jon or Kate of the forever fatal damage they are about to inflict. None of their kids is going to be "alright." They will carry deep scars and wounds for the rest of their lives...unless their parents can wise-up" and make some desperate,last ditch attempt to "do the right thing." Ouch!! I know that is so passe' these days- the "Right thing," is very subjective now. If your truly interested, read the
Chapters of Johm
Chapter 1-2, Corithians 13, and Ephesians 2-4-those are chapters in the New Testament of the Bible.
Jon and Kates Divorse
I come from a divorced family, my parents divorced when I was 13 years old. Yes I was old enough to understand what was going on and why it was happening, but no matter what age you are when your parents divocse it is still hard on the children. My mom and dad were a little like Jon and Kate, they were always fighting and never liked to be around each other! Even thou they had a smile on there faces when they came around my brothers and I we saw right threw the smiles and laughter!If I were Jon and Kates child I would make them both sit down away from the children and really talk about the marrage and whats going on. I have been watching there show from the begining and this past one when they annouced to the world that they were seperating it kinda killed me. I honestly think if they really wanted to save there marrage they could. Kate would really need to work on the way she treats Jon, I mean if she watched her own show and realized how she was acting I think she would agree that she is very controling. As for Jon if he would just stand up and speek his mind he would probably get more respect from Kate and she'd stop with the bitching! Everyone I know that watches the show thinks she's and ugly b@t*h! Honestly I think she's really pretty and she is nice she just doesn't show it all the time (like a lot of other people I know!) Anyway what I am trying to say is in my opinion Jon and Kate could work on there marrage and stay together if they honestly wanted to they just need to work on a big thing called communication! If you don't have that then your marrage is doomed no matter what!